Make Believe

What is an absurdity? It is something that is not believable IF you are
paying attention and thinking it through. You have to purposely ignore
evidence that is easily in reach and you have to have a pre-existing (even
if unconscious) desire to believe the absurdity for it to persuade you.

How does it lead to atrocities? If you believe, as people of many races
have over the centuries, that people of other races are not fully human,
then denying them rights (or killing them) is easily rationalized.

If you believe, as people of many religions have over the centuries, that
people of other religions are eternally damned, then treating them as
less than human (or killing them) is easily rationalized.

If you believe, as people of many political persuasions have over the
centuries, that those who don’t believe in the same way of governing
as you do are evil and corrupt, then keeping them from being politically
involved (or killing them) is easily rationalized.

If you believe, as people of both genders have over the centuries, that
women are less intelligent and able than men, then oppressing them
(or killing them) is easily rationalized.

Where did those actions come from over the centuries? From believing absurdities.

“Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.” – Francois-Marie Arouet (Voltaire)

A Bird Fell in the Brambles

A bird fell in the brambles,
a place I could not get.
small and frail, not fully grown,
beyond the fence it set.

Wiggle dog brought it attention,
barking incessantly.
The mother and father dive bombing
To keep her away from tree.

This morning she still is there,
breathing shallow I see.
The parents squawking above us,
Wiggle dog fast against the tree.

She is bound to die I know,
It’s sad to contemplate.
Sadder for the parents
unable to change her fate.

The dog, she barks away,
at a bird on it’s last gasp.
Today she barked at something
just beyond her grasp.

Marty Coleman
June 16, 2009

Fame Usually Comes

It seems to me that the desperation for fame usually does not lead to it,
it just leads to more desperation, then disappointment. The key is to
not ignore the possibility of fame, but to understand it’s reason.

The question can be asked about anything that is pursued for its own
sake. Why stay fit? So you can live a long life in health? Why live a
long life? So you can do what exactly? What will you do with that long
life? What will you do with that fame? What is the reason for reaching
for those things (and many others)?

Pursue the next question after the question. See where that leads.

“Fame usually comes to those who are thinking about something else.” –  Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.

My Goal in Life

The last in my pet series for the week. While blind cat is gone now, we
still have stumpy dog, wiggle dog and normal cat remaining. I like them
all and look forward to enjoying their company for a long time.

“My goal in life is to be as good of a person as my dog already thinks I am.” – anonymous

Animals Already Know

Spoken by a four year old to adults when his pet was being put to sleep, in response to the question why pets don’t live as long as people.

 

Today we will put our 16 year old cat, Goody, to sleep. She really isn’t
called Goody by anyone, just kitty. But I call her blind cat (which she is)
to differentiate her from our other cat, Mayru, or normal cat (quickly becoming
fat cat).
 
She meows funny, and is sort of like a pinball ball, bumping slightly into
things as she makes her way to the water or food or a lap. She has no
claws so she is fun to play with and not get scarred, unless her teeth get
you. And if her teeth get you, you deserve it.
 
She belongs to Caitlin my step daughter. She came into her life at age 3 and
is now leaving at age 19. A long time and a very short time. It is symbolic
of growing up, of the passage of time and of change. It is very hard and
emotional for her, and her Mother, Linda. But it is time and they know it.
 
Mayru, the other cat, is aware of what is happening we think. They did not
get along well at all. But they kept out of each others way or at least Mayru
side stepped Goody as best she could. Goody usually wasn’t aware of Mayru
until the growling and meowing began, then watch out!
 
Stumpy dog and Wiggle dog are oblivious.
 

Fighting Cats

One of our cats is nearing the end of her life. In honor of her and her best
friend, my step daughter, I am going to do a few drawings about pets this week.

“Ignorant people think it is the noise which fighting cats make that is so aggravating, but it ain’t so; it is the sickening grammar that they use.” – Mark Twain

Man’s Gravest Threat

Can anyone think of anything more stupid than to hate someone because
of the melanin level of their skin? I have.

Some competitors for the Stupid Hate Award are:

  • The language they speak
  • Their accent
  • The amount of wrinkles they have, or don’t have
  • The specifics of their genitalia
  • Where they were born
  • The clothes they wear
  • Their job or career choice

What do you think? Is the list accurate, what else would you
add or subtract and why?

Give your opinion and you will be helping me out by testing
my comment box. I think it is working well but I need people
out on different machines and browsers to check it out for me.

“Racism is man’s gravest threat to man – the maximum of hatred for the minimum of reason.” –  Abraham J. Heschel, Jewish theologian and philosopher, 1907- 1972

People Travel To Faraway Places To Watch, In Fascination, The Kind Of People They Ignore At Home

“People travel to faraway places to watch in fascination the kind of people they ignore at home.” – Dagobert D. Runes


I love to travel and am looking forward to getting back to Europe next year maybe. I remember visiting for the first time in 2003 and realizing how interesting people were, on the bus, at the beach, in the B&B or cafes. Then coming home and seeing that, if I just paid attention, there were interesting unique people and things in my home town as well.

I haven’t spotted mechanoman (see above) yet, but I will introduce myself if I do!

Drawing © 2022 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

When the Heart Grieves Over What It Has Lost

“When the heart grieves over what it has lost, the spirit can still rejoice over what it has left.” –   Sufi Aphorism

The pain of a break up or loss is about so much. If you are the breakee, then it is
about wondering why you aren’t lovable, why you can’t keep a man or woman. If you
are the breaker, then it is about not wanting to hurt someone but needing to get out.
Those are just two things. But in either case, you will feel loss, you will feel something
missing, a hole in your whole.

The suggestion that you might get from well meaning friends, ‘Hey, look at all you
still have.’ might seem like just so much torture, since at the time you don’t feel you
have anything at all. But in truth, in time, your spirit, in spite your heart’s desire to
continue grieving, will look towards what remains and will find in them your
strength and happiness for the days ahead. Cliche as it might be, it is how it really
does go.

This is for my friend, T.

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How Old Would You Be If You Didn’t Know How Old You Were?

“How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you were?” – Satchel Paige

On the TV show ‘The Biggest Loser’ the contestants meet with the doctor who tells them that there is a difference between their biological age and the chronological age. One of them might be 25, but their body is actually closer to 40, a 54 year old might actually have a body closer to a 74 year old.

But what about ‘attitude age’? What would be the age of your attitude if you didn’t know how old you are? What about your ‘play age’? How old would you be in that area?

The author of this quote, Satchel Paige, was a famous baseball pitcher in the Negro League. Due to segregation and discrimination he was not able to get into the major leagues until well after his prime. Towards the end of his career he finally played with the Cleveland Indians and other teams.

He was born in 1905 or 1906. He didn’t start in the majors until he was 42 years old. His last game in the majors was at the age of 59, in 1965.

You can see why he had the credentials to ask this question of anyone he met.

What are your answers?

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