The Whoosh of a Deadline – Blog World Journey #5

I know today will whoosh right by, but stop and smell the procrastination, won’t you?

Whoosing Deadlines - Blog World Journey #5

Expect the Unexpected

As I have gotten older I increasingly am aware of how many things can go wrong at the last minute of a project or upcoming event.  As a result I really do try to get organized and prepared with plenty of time. And even WITH that mindset I am always seeming to be down to the wire in my preparations. 

I am expecting it to be the same with my presentation on procrastination and content creation at Blog World next week (Wed. June 6th). This is drawing #5 of the procrastination part, but it will include a lot more I still need to get together.  I hope I don’t have too many interruptions but if I do I at least feel I have a strong foundation prepared. We shall see!

It’s about Respect

Here is what I am thinking about today to include in my presentation.  The act of being deliberate in your content creation, working away at it as best you can, is showing respect to those you will give your content out to.  It’s no different than arriving late for something and knowing in advance you were going to be late and leaving late anyway.  That, to me, shows disrespect for those awaiting your arrival.  Not preparing your work properly is the same thing, right?

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Drawing by Marty Coleman, who doesn’t like the sound of the whoosh

Quote by Douglas Adams, who wonders how much whoosh a woodchuck whooshes if a woodchuck would chuck whooshes.

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The Dying and the Undone – Journey to Blog World #4

I put it off as long as I could, but it’s day #4 of the Procrastination series and of my journey to Blog World NY to talk about it.

The Dying and the Undone - Journey to Blog World #4

Dying and the Worst Fear

When I think about dying my worst fear is that all the artwork I have done over the decades will be lost. That it will be so disorganized, so hard to find and sort through, that no one will want to do it and it will just disappear eventually.  I have a lot of things I want to get done still, but I have done a lot of things so far and I want them recorded and stored in a way that others can see or hear about them later.

Technology

I have to leave things undone each day, and many days I leave them undone on purpose because I don’t feel like working so hard at it.  But in the end I keep coming back to my tasks, both the current art creation tasks and the cataloging and organizing of my prior work. It’s not as if it’s going to end since as soon as I get everything organized on CD or DVD another technology comes along that demands it be done all over again.  For example, I have been going through old family photos this past Memorial Day weekend and I came across a floppy disk full of images. That was modern and safe at one point but now it’s ancient technology I can’t access without spending money on it. 

What is your greatest fear in dying and do you put off dealing with it? Why so?

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman, whose many scribbles are unaccounted for.

Quote by Pablo Picasso, whose every scribble is pretty much accounted for.

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50 Shades of Procrastination – Blog World Journey #3

Procrastination and self-love

What do you see?

Can you see what’s going on here? It’s not about masturbation.  It’s about waiting, hoping, wanting, dreaming, thinking, desiring, yearning, lusting, needing, fantasizing, pretending.  It’s about dreaming vs doing. It’s about doing the easy thing, maybe out of habit, maybe out of boredom or fear or comfort instead of the hard thing.

Production vs Procrastination

Producing is working at a relationship, a job, a goal.  Procrastination is avoiding it, paying attention instead to something you can control, but not really take advantage of. While fun, and maybe harmless, you can’t go anywhere with the object of your procrastination.  You can only do that with the object of your productivity.

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Drawing by Marty Coleman, who has a cat.

Quote by Anonymous, who only looks at the pictures

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Any Time – Procrastination #2

The journey to blog World in New York continues.
Anytime - Procrastination #2

Anytime

This quote, ‘What can be done at any time is never done at all’ probably exemplifies my procrastination nemesis more than any other.  I like deadlines. I fail at deadlines sometimes but not nearly as much as when I don’t have any at all.  

Busy Boy

Another element that really helps me is to be busy.  It makes for a certain amount of stress, but not so much as to be negative. When I am busy, like I am now, I think faster, I act faster, and I make plans better. I have to fit something into a smaller time slot and that helps me focus my time and my brain.

I am in the middle of helping my daughter move into her first ‘big girl’ apartment in Dallas. A lot of moving, truck renting, decision making, appliance buying, etc. etc.  I have to fit everything else, my clients (who I am not ignoring if you are reading this, I AM working on that header), my dog who has a torn ACL and has to be crated and walked every few hours (not fun for her), my running group that I organize and lead 5 days a week, and my photo group I help lead by doing the library presentations (one of which is tonight and I just came up with the topic this morning).  

Blog World here I come

All the while I am preparing for Blog World. And I am actually preparing better for it because I am so busy. At least I think I am.  You be the judge when you come to my session if you attend, ok?

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman, busy boy

Quote is an English Proverb

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Someday – Journey to Blog World – Procrastination #1

Day One of my Blog World New York Journey

Someday

Blog World New York 2012

I am speaking at Blog World in New York in about 2 weeks.  The title of my talk is ‘Overcoming Procrastination from Start to Finish’.  I am going to document my preparation for the presentation from now until the day of the talk, Wed. June 6th.

As a result I am deep into figuring out the themes, graphics, words, images, napkins, schedule and organization of it all.  I want to be prepared and I don’t want to procrastinate.  I don’t want to make the mistake of thinking ‘someday’ will actually come. I need to plan it with real days not pretend days.  I need to organize it so that by the time I am standing on the stage in front of the (put in hopeful large number here) people in attendance I will be able to give them something of value. 

Something of Value

I can give them something of value in direct relation to how well I know the material and how refined that material is.  That means I can only think about it so long before I have to actually practice the presentation.  It’s in the practicing that I will learn what works.  To practice I need to have the presentation lined out and organized at the draft level. I don’t need all the images and I don’t need every word in place, but I do need to have the basic theme outlined and organized.  I find that even that will likely change but I start with something that way.

Since I am doing this as ‘The Napkin Dad’ the majority of images will come from my napkins.  Thus, I need to prepare a good set of napkins that will illuminate the theme and the ideas.  That means finding past napkins, which I can only really do if I have them named consistently and well organized in my electronic files.  It also means creating new ones that meet the direct needs of this presentation and today is Procrastination napkin #1

Your Contribution

So, here we are.  Day 1 of my blog journey to Blog World in New York.  What I am looking for from you are your pearls of wisdom about procrastination. Why you think it happens, what you do about it, what is good about it, and what your favorite procrastinating activity is.  Whatever other insights, references or resource you have I would love to hear all about them.

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Drawing by Marty Coleman, who tried out for the Procrastination Olympics that were never held.

Quote by someone too lazy to demand attribution so Mr. Anonymous gets the credit

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Where Are You Going?

I am finally back to the napkins! I took some time off to speak at and attend the BlogWorld LA conference for the first time. Then I headed south to San Diego to visit my father and sister. I am there now, finally with some time to draw.

travel

Travel is much like a life education vs. a formal education. It’s important to never confuse the two. With a formal education and a regimented, organized travel experience, let’s say for business, you need to be sure of what it is you hope to accomplish and what you want to learn. It’s good to have it planned.

But in your life education and in all of your travels, business or not, there is another layer that exists, and that is the layer of not knowing why you are going somewhere or learning something. I don’t mean you have no idea at all, I mean you have to allow that you CAN’T know it all in advance. Your deepest experiences and lessons come to you without your prior knowledge that they are about to arrive. It is those things we couldn’t have anticipated that resonate the deepest.

So, don’t freak out if you don’t know every step of the journey ahead, whether in your education or your travel, If you did, you wouldn’t learn much.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily.

Quote by Yogi Berra, 1925-not dead yet, New York Yankee baseball player and manager

Friends – Blog World LA – Day 4

Whenever you go to a conference there is that dreaded feeling that you won’t know anyone, no one will befriend you and you will spend a lot of time roaming the cavernous halls of some center feeling alone amidst thousands of people. It doesn’t usually end up happening at that level but the anticipation of it is there and the reality of conference life definitely includes stretches of those times.

Luckily, I ended up with some great new friends with whom I was able have great conversations, pal around with from session to session, catch at lunch or a party and get to know. The anticipation of being completely alone was replaced with the anticipation of seeing my friends again shortly, even if I was alone.

new friends

Here are three of my new found friends, Leslie, Shanna, and John. I drew this during the last lunch. They were fun, happy, and friendly. They also happened to be fantastic encouragers for me before I gave my presentation and enthusiastic supporters after. It is very gratifying to have them as new friends. Many others became good friends as well, and I am grateful for all of them!

Blog World Los Angeles is now over. I tweeted to the conference participants to see if anyone was headed down south to San Diego where I will be visiting my sister, her family and my father. Sure enough I got a quick response and am now going to hitch a ride in exchange for gas. So, next stop the beach and a commissioned photo shoot on Tuesday!

Thanks again to all my Napkin Kin!
Marty

Presentation Day – Blog World Day 3

Hi Napkin kin! I have been pretty overwhelmed with the activity and preparation for this week at Blog World LA. Add a technical learning curve for doing it all on an iPad and i haven’t posted the way I was hoping to. But my presentation is over now and the technical stuff is all good so I will be back on top of it now!

Here are a few photos of me at my presentation at BlogWorld LA.

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The presentation went great! Even had people want to take their photos with me, a first for sure! I have made some great connections and am very excited about the future of The Napkin Dad Daily.

Thanks to all my subscribers and friends who love the blog and support me! I will tell you all more tomorrow, ok?

Marty

Blog World LA – Day 1

For me the best type of travel is about the new. But my first travel experience this week of Blog World LA, where I am speaking Friday, was about the old.

I spent my years 6-12 in Los Angeles. We lived on the beach in Playa del Rey, not far from Santa Monica and Venice. Coming back there was one iconic LA landmark I knew would make me happy to see it.

As odd as it seems now, when I was 10 years old my adventurous friend Don and I rode our bikes to LAX to check out the new moving sidewalks we had heard they had there. I mean, come on, how cool is that, a moving sidewalk?

We actually didn’t live that far away, but it was quite the adventure for us 10 years olds. I rode my very hip Stingray bike with the banana seat and the chopper handlebars.

So, what was this iconic landmark? It was, and is, the LAX’s Theme Building in the middle of the airport. I loved that building as a kid and it was even cooler when we were able to ride our bikes right up to it and lock them to one of the walls.

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That building was one of the earliest buildings I remember and really helped my fascination and love of architecture ever sense.

California, Here I Come!

I am taking off for Los Angeles to speak for the first time at Blog World, a humongous conference on…blogging.  I am speaking at 4pm on Friday. My topic title is: The Napkin Dad Explains: Six Stop Signs on Creativity Road.  Wish me luck!

California

I was raised in California. First on the beach in Del Mar, near San Diego, then up in Los Angeles.  I love LA.  The conference will be downtown and we lived at the beach but we used to drive in a number of times a week so my sister and I could swim with our swim team at the LA Athletic Club.  Bad pollution made breathing hard but besides that I loved it.

I remember the daughter of a movie star was in our swim team, she had red hair I think and I had a crush on her.  The Rolling Stones had a song out back then called ‘Pretty Ballerina’ maybe? Anyway, they had some song that was the song I attached to her. I still think of her whenever I hear that song.

I now live in Oklahoma, thus I can make fun of both states in my drawing today. I love Oklahoma. I haven’t met a daughter of a movie star here, that I know of. But I love it nonetheless.

If you are going to Blog World, make sure to find me and say hi. And of course, COME TO MY PRESENTATION!

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Will Rogers, 1879-1935, American humorist and movie star from OKLAHOMA.