Who to Love – Love #1

 

 

love #1 2014

 

Truth

This is one of my favorite lines from a song.  The moment I heard it, I believed it was good and true.  Years later I became familiar with Jesus’ teaching of “Love your neighbor as yourself”.  When someone questions Jesus about exactly who is his neighbor, Jesus tells the story of the Good Samaritan.  The point of that story is that everyone is your neighbor and should be treated as such.

In other words, you never have to question what it is you are to do. You are always to love the person in front of you.  

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote are lyrics from the song, ‘Love the one you’re with’ by Stephen Stills.  

Most people think it is a ‘Crosby, Stills and Nash’ song, but it was actually written and performed by Stills on his debut solo album in 1970.  It was later recorded live with C S & N and that is how it became thought of as a C S & N song.  The line was not made up by Stills. He kept hearing a fellow musician, Billy Preston, say the line in daily life and asked him if he could use it in a song. He agreed.

 

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Naked Women, 1998 – 2014 – A Collection

 

Last week I showed you a collection of naked men. It got more hits than any other post I have had in probably 6 months to a year.  I am sure those trolling were disappointed to find out they were cartoon naked men with very minimalist interpretations of their packages, but hopefully it was interesting for the rest of you.

Why Naked?

Today it’s a naked women collection. I am pretty sure the trolls will be equally disappointed in the lack of graphic rendering.

Those among you who are upright citizens might think, ‘Well dang Marty, aren’t you the ‘Napkin Dad’ and aren’t you suppose to be an example of good morals?  So, why are you drawing naked women (and men)?’  The answer is simple.  I like drawing naked people. I am an artist and a big reason for that was that I was raised in a family that appreciated and collected art. My Grandfather collected art and had a fantastic collection of prints, drawings and paintings. Many of those were handed down to my mother. Thus, my household growing up was full of art, many pieces were of nudes.  How early did I actually start drawing the nude?  From the very beginning. My first art exhibition ever was in my High School Library in my senior year.  My subject matter? Nudes that I drew from actual models.  No, I am not joking. It was a different era. I like drawing naked people because it allows me a fantastic opportunity to communicate both emotions and ideas.

The Naked Emotion

You might ask, ‘But you have 4 daughters, aren’t you worried you are influencing them to think it’s ok for women to be objectified by depicting the nude?’  My answer would be the exact opposite is what I think I am influencing them to think. That it is ok and positive for women (and men) to be depicted nude (and for artists to do the depicting) when you are being true to the story you want to tell and the feeling you want to arouse.  Funny I know, the word ‘arouse’ is a loaded term when talking about the depiction of the nude.  But feelings about the nude are not restricted to sexual arousal.  Embarrassment, pride, relief, compassion, empathy, anger, hurt, shame, exhilaration, triumph, and many other emotions and feelings can also be depicted and elicited by the use of the nude in art, photography or film.  Sometimes the nude is actually the best vehicle for getting those emotions communicated in a compelling way.  I would hope my daughters and grandchildren would see art, and the nudity depicted in it, in that light.

Me and Michelangelo

Of course it is somewhat silly and ironic that I write an essay about the nude in art when what you are about to see are cartoon drawings. My drawings here are not in competition with Michelangelo’s sculpture of David for the exaltation of the human form.  But they are in keeping with the impetus of the artist to try to communicate well, which is all I am really trying to do when you get right down to it.

Here is a selection through the years.  A link to the original posts are below each image.

 

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1998/99

 

Cuddling

Original post – Woman Cuddling With Flowers

 

showering

Original post – Blue Showering

 

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2001

 

respectability

Original post – Not Beauty But Respectability

 

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2003

 

joy & clothing

Original post – Joy More Than Clothing

 

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2004

 

without love

Original post – Without Love At the Center of Your Circle

 

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2009

 

beauty

Original post – An Adorable Pancreas

 

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2010

 

buns

Original post – I Really Don’t Think I Need Buns

 

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2011

 

evolution 1

Original post – Heresy – Creation vs Evolution #1

 

escape 1

Original post – Escaping Thankfulness

 

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2012

 

nudity 1

Original post – Do Nudists Have a Fashion Sense? – Naked and the Nude #1

 

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2013

 

prostitute 4

Original post – Spirit And Flesh – The Prostitute #4

 

body 1

Original post – You Own Your Body – Body Image #1

 

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2014

 

enjoying life 1

Original post – What To do Between Birth and Death – Enjoying Life #1

 

happiness bra

Original post – Where Do you Find Your Sublime Happiness?

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Talking Animals, 1998-2014 – A Collection

 

Early on in my napkin drawings I started adding in our pets.  We had a dog and cat, and now we have 2 dogs and a cat.  They are recurring characters.  We also had a snake, a turtle and lots of pet rats when my daughters were growing up. They make appearances as well.

I use animals as the voice of wisdom often. They are immune from the stupidity of society and humanity so they are a great objective reporter of our homo sapien pressures.  

Here is a collection of animal drawings from 1998 to 2014.

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1998/99

 

loneliness 2000

 

Original post – It is Loneliness

 

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2000

 

anger & fear

 

Original post – All Anger

Second drawing, years later, same quote – All Anger

 

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2001

 

confessing our faults

 

 Original post – We Only Confess

 

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2002

 

success

 

Original post – Success Generally Depends

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2003

 

opinions

 

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2004

 

misfortune

 

Original post – We all have the strength

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2009

 

wasting time

Original post – The Time You Enjoy Wasting

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2010

art

Original post – Art is the Only Way

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2011

tornado 3

 

Original post – Whatever Remains

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2012

dogs and cats 4

Original post – Err, Forgive, Purr

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2013

brands 1

Original post – Shopping For a Unicorn

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2014

business 6 2014

 

Original post – The Mosquito’s Power

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The Heart of the Matter – Conscience #4

 

Let’s cut to the chase, it’s day #4 of my Conscience series.  

 

conscience 4 2014

 

Moral Fashion

Is this about fashion?  Maybe, if you are a young woman who isn’t comfortable wearing short shorts.  But ‘fashion’ comes in many forms.  There is moral fashion for example.

This quote actually came from a fight about communism here in the US back in the 1940s and 50s. The House of Representatives started to hold hearings trying to get citizens to tell on their neighbors, co-workers and friends as to whether they were communists or communist sympathizers.  When they brought Lillian Hellman, a play and screen writer, to testify she refused, using this quote to rebuff their attempts to coerce her to tell.

Heart

The reason I used the image of a heart being cut out is that more than any other element (besides perhaps one’s romantic entanglements) our conscience really is the heart of who we are.  Take away our morality and our conscience and you pretty much leave an empty shell behind.

Pride

I am always proud of my friends, family and even people I only know online, who find their moral boundaries and grow in them.  Don’t get me wrong though, I am not only talking about the ‘traditional values’ idea. I am also talking about the radical, or the nudist, or the person who foregoes the traditional life of the middle class for a life serving others in Africa.  I am talking about the child of doctors who expect their child to follow in their footsteps but instead they incur the wrath of the family by deciding to be a singer, or artist. This is true of the children of artists who want to be doctors too of course.

I am talking about those who have courage to say, ‘This is me.’

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote by Lillian Hellman, 1905-1984, American playwright and screenwriter.  Look her up to find out more about her courageous stand against the House Committee on Un-American Activities.

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The Hand of God and Others – 1998-2014, A Collection

 

We continue our journey into the Napkin’s archives with a collection of hands.  This collection also happens to contain my favorite quote of all time.  See if you can find it.

 

Hands are Handy

One of the reasons I used hands when I first started doing these drawings for my daughters was that they were very easy and fast to draw. I was drawing 3 drawings per morning to stick in their lunches so I had to be fast. I could quickly draw the hand with one line and have it express an idea.  I liked that. Then add in that it was easy for the hand to represent something greater than self, from another world, and it was a no brainer to use the hand for ideas related to God, religion, hell, heaven, theology, etc. It came to represent more than that but that is where it started.

Here is a selection starting in 1998/99.  The first napkin is undated but the only undated drawings I have are, for the most part, from those 2 years.

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1998/99

 

sleeping girl

 

Original post – ‘Sleeping Girl’

 

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2001

 

Atheist thank god

 

Original post – ‘I Am An Atheist Still’

 

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clenched fist

 

Original post – ‘Thinking Clearly’

 

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2002

 

facts

 

Original post – ‘We Are All Imprisoned by Facts’

 

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2003

 

fingers_sm

 

Original post – ‘The Fingers Must Be Educated’

 

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2004

 

unexpected2_sm

 

Original post – ‘The Unexpected Life’

 

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Religion Test

 

Original post – ‘The Test of a Religion’

 

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2009

 

Atheism

 

 Original post – ‘If There is a God’

 

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theology

 

Original post – ‘The Intent of Theology’

 

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2010

 

value

 

Original post – ‘Man Must Be Disappointed’

 

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2011

 

evolution

 

Original post – ‘Religion Was Science’ – Creation vs Evolution #4

 

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2012

 

perfectionism

 

Original post – ‘Perfection and Progress’ – The Perfect Perfectionist Series #3

 

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2014

 

wealth1-2014_sm

 

Original post – ‘The Moment of Good Fortune’ – Wealth #1

 

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Drawings by Marty Coleman

 

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