The Love of Art – An Illustrated Short Story

 

Art Introduces Herself

 

Chapter One

Art lived in a museum. Many people touched her.  Even the guards would touch her when no one was looking.  She liked being touched. A few people thought she was stupid or that she was ugly. Some thought she was old looking. Some thought her lips were too big while others thought they were too small. Some felt sorry for her, others ignored her.  Some wanted to know what she was made of. A few wondered how she got there.  But most thought she was very beautiful and almost everyone took a photo of her.

Chapter Two

One lady used to come and stare at her every Friday afternoon. Sometimes the lady would cry.  Art didn’t understand that but she liked the lady a lot.  The lady looked like her, which Art thought was odd.  Her hair was longer, and had some gray in it, and she had more wrinkles than Art did, but she had the same pinkish skin color and the same red lips, blue eyes and strong eyebrows.  Art thought she was very beautiful.

Chapter Three

At one point the lady disappeared for many weeks. Art wondered where she had gone, wishing she had legs so she could go find her.  Finally, one day the lady came back, this time in a wheel chair.  She had a scarf around her head and her skin had changed color.  She cried a lot that day.  Art didn’t know what it was all about but she was very sad as well.  She didn’t see her again after that.

Chapter Four

About a year after the lady’s last visit a new person started to come to see her regularly.  This was a young girl, probably no more than 15 years old.  Art didn’t know who she was but she also looked a lot like Art, and she liked that.  The girl started coming by on Saturday mornings with a bright pink sketchbook.  She would sit cross-legged on the floor in front of Art and draw her again and again.   When she first started coming to visit she cried just like the lady did.  But after a while she no longer cried. She would smile a lot though.  Her drawings got better and better. Sometimes Art thought the drawings looked like her and other times she thought they looked more like the lady who used to visit.  The young girl did this for many years.

Time passed and Art continued to enjoy the company of many people.  She liked where she was and never complained but her young friend had stopped visiting many years before and sometimes she missed her.  She often wondered what happened to the lady and the young girl.  

Chapter Five

One day, many years later, workers in the museum came into the room where Art lived and took down all the paintings in the room.  It was very lonely for a few days but then they started bringing in new paintings.  All the paintings were wrapped so she didn’t know anything about them but she was hopeful they would be as friendly as the old paintings had been. Finally a few days later the workers took off the wrappings.  Art couldn’t believe her eyes.  All the paintings were of her.  

Chapter 6

That very same night a lot of people came into the museum and walked around looking at all the new paintings. They also looked at Art a lot. They talked about how much the paintings looked like Art. They talked about how beautiful and meaningful Art was.  Art was happy for all the attention.  

It was very loud with everyone talking at the same time until all of a sudden a beautiful woman walked in the room. Everyone stopped talking and looked her way.  The woman smiled a big smile and waved at everyone.  She stopped right in front of Art and stared at her.  Art stared back.  It was the young girl in front of her, all grown up. But it also seemed to be the lady who used to come visit.  They had the same blue eyes, red lips, pinkish skin and strong brows.  The beautiful woman leaned forward and kissed Art on the cheek.  She held the kiss for a moment, leaned close to Art’s ear and whispered, “Thank you Art, you saved my life. I love you”.  Then the beautiful woman straightened up, turned around to face the crowd and said, “Thank you for coming to see my Art.  I hope you love it as much as I do.”

Art smiled and cried inside.

The End

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Drawing and story © 2014 by Marty Coleman, who also loves Art

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What Do You Fear Most?

 

I fear you might need to hear what the Napkin says today.

 

What you fear most

Fear and/or  __________?

This quote is pretty self-explanatory; What you need is also what you fear.  I think it’s true, do you?

now let’s go a step further. Let’s substitute the word ‘fear’ with another word (or words) you think also make a true statement.

What word or words would you put in it’s place?  And why?

Examples

What examples from your own life prove this to be true, either now or in the past.

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman, who fears not knowing what I fear.

Quote by John Barresi – sent by Peter Meek

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Poor Decisions

 

It was a good decision to publish a drawing about poor decisions.

 

poor decisions

 

Teenagers are Dumb, Adults are Dumber

As most of the US knows and feels, it’s been brutal cold all over the eastern 2/3rds of the country.  We are lucky here in Oklahoma, the cold is not nearly as bad as north and east of us. Still, it’s cold enough  (12 degrees this AM) that parents are fighting with their teenage kids about how to dress to go outdoors.  

I went to Wal-Mart yesterday. In cold weather it’s fun to make a game of finding the most inappropriately dressed person.  Yesterday, when it was all of 14 degrees with a strong wind that person was a teenage girl walking out of the store in a simple long sleeve t-shirt and shorts.  Her shoes were Tom’s type slip-on canvas shoes. No socks.  She was the winner UNTIL a second later I spotted her father walking behind her.  He was in a t-shirt and shorts.  It wasn’t hard to figure out where she got her common sense and attitude of preparedness.  Did they make it home ok? Probably so. His poor decision for himself and his daughter (yes, he was responsible for how she dressed) probably did not end poorly.  But would they have made it home ok if they had gotten into a wreck on the icy streets, going off into a culvert and disappearing from the road? Maybe not.  In which case, that poor decision could have ended badly.

Another Sort of Poor Decision

Being underdressed in the cold is dumb, but there are much worse decisions people make. Decisions with HUGE life altering consequences. But even those don’t have to end poorly.  For example, you have unprotected sex with someone and get pregnant, or get them pregnant. That was a poor decision.  But that poor decision doesn’t mean the child’s life is doomed. That life (and your life) can be a great one. Your relationship with the father or mother can be good, even if you don’t stay together.  You can arrange your lifestyle so the child is raised safe and happy.  You can build a life for your family that is positive and good. It might take more work than it would have otherwise, but it can be done.

The Kid at the Bus Stop

If I see someone at the top of a cliff, about to go over, I am going to yell and scream and do whatever I can to stop them.  But if they have already fallen off the cliff and are at the bottom, I am not going to yell and scream. I am not going to tell them they shouldn’t have been so close to the edge.  I am going to help them up, tend to their wounds and help them recover.  Then, and only then, we might have a discussion on how to avoid that cliff in the future.

If you have made poor decisions, resolve to not have them end poorly. If you are a witness to poor decisions others make, do what you can to help them have the end be rich, not poor.

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Drawing by Marty Coleman

Quote by my cool Son-in-Law and father of my granddaughter, Patrick Evans

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When Things Fall Apart

 

I fell for this quote the moment I read it.

Falling apart, falling into place

Falling Apart

Have you ever had every expectation of what your life is going to be destroyed?  I have, twice. It was my injury and burns from a boat explosion the first time and my divorce the second time.  In the scheme of things they weren’t nearly as brutal as truly terrible events; a tsunami, a terrorist attack, genocide, maiming, killing, destruction of your physical world.  Those are cataclysms that it’s hard to recover from.

I remember being in the hospital in September of 1973 and having someone say something about January, 74 coming up. I remember how impossible it was for me to imagine January. It wasn’t just far away in terms of time, it was psychologically far away.  I didn’t believe it would ever come because every day was the same painful day, again and again. The pain was never going to leave and if the pain didn’t leave then time really wasn’t moving forward at all.  January was just another word, like bandage or blood, it wasn’t a moment in the future.  

In it’s own way, less physically painful than the burns, but emotionally much more devastating, my divorce destroyed a lot of what I was expecting from the future.  I hadn’t verbally formulated much of what I expected to happen in the future while I was still married; my ideas were assumptions about how it would go.  But once the divorce was in the works those ideas were obliterated.  I wouldn’t have a 50 wedding anniversary for example. That was tough to take.  I couldn’t allow myself to imagine a new relationship with a new family structure.  

Falling Into Place

What happens next?  Well, if you are the one whose life has been blown up, then what you can do is have an open and brave heart.  That is not an easy thing to do, but it can be done.  Not all at once, but over time, you can take a brave step into the future and see where it leads.  

My experience of the explosion, recovery and my still existing scars ended up being one of the single most important events of my life, changing me into an artist, friend, husband and father I never would have been otherwise.  Everything fell into place in large part because of that event.

My divorce, while unfortunate, led to me dating Linda, marrying her and inheriting a fourth daughter, Caitlin. Both have been blessings beyond what I could have imagined.  Everything fell into place in large part because of that divorce.

Time

Of course, you can’t necessarily explain that this obliteration of life is actually an essential part of future happiness to someone who’s just gone through such a trauma; they really don’t want to hear it since it sounds like just so much patronizing crap.  And it probably is patronizing crap at the time. But it’s also true.  The future can be better than what you allow yourself to imagine.

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote is a variation on one by Lolly Daskel

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Who’s At Church – A Poem

 

who's at church - a poem

 

Who’s at Church on the Last Day of the Year Today – A Poem

She was alone,
But she smiled at a friend.
Her makeup was dark,
But her smile was light.

He had a ponytail,
But he took it out.
He raised his hands
And said things out loud.

She had on a long skirt that swayed
And raised her hands as well.
But they were facing her,
And then she put glasses on.

He wore red pants,
He didn’t sing all the songs
And he kept his scarf on and
He gave no money.

Marty Coleman, 12/29/13 – 1/3/14

I was going to show her the drawing as I left the balcony at church but she saw some friends and I didn’t want to interrupt. I saw her on the way out of the church a while later and showed it to her then. She seemed happy about it, though one can never be completely sure of those things.