Presidents and Other Random People Day

Today in the US it is ‘Presidents’ Day’.  It is also ‘Random Act of Kindness’ day.  So I decided to make a mashup day. It’s now the ‘Presidents and Other Random People Day’.

I started by looking up some images of George Washington (Prez #1).

This is what I found.

washington screen shot

I found the usual images but I also found some random images of people who didn’t, at first glance, seem to belong in a search for George.  Since today is also Random Acts of Kindness Day I thought I would show a kindness by remembering and honoring these other people as well.

1. George the Myth

The painting is of George Washington as a young boy. It is illustrating the mythical story of him admitting to his father that he chopped down the cherry tree because he ‘could not tell a lie’. All Americans know that story and many of us know the painting. But who is the guy drawing back the curtain and pointing to the illustration? The name of the painting is ‘Parson Weem’s Fable’ by Grant Wood and the man in the painting is Parson Weems, the creator of the fable about the cherry tree.  It’s been alleged, and with good reason based on his other exaggerations, that Weems made up the story.  Washington was revered above all other figures among the founding fathers and mothers, and with good reason. But along with that admiration came a desire to exalt him way above his reality. This story was just one of many meant to put him up on a quasi-God pedestal.  The truth is though, he needs no pedestal.  The raw facts of his life and his efforts are enough to put him at the pinnacle of America.

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2. George the Inventor

This one isn’t hard to figure out. The photo is of George Washington Carver, the amazing scientist and educator. He was known primarily for his many discovered uses for peanuts that helped create a billion dollar industry.  He was the one who introduced crop rotation to the south, saving it from soil depletion from heavy cotton and tobacco growing.  He also was an inventor, educator, painter and a musician.  This man was a great man, never once selling or patenting any ideas of his, always saying “God gave them to me, how can I sell them to others?”.  Check him out, it’s worth it.

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3. George the Model

He’s a model and has nothing to do with George.  The book however is about Washington as a young boy and man.  Who knows how accurate it is.  

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4.  George the Congressman

It’s easy enough to assume his name is George Washington something and you would be right. He’s George Washington Collins. He was a Congressman from Illinois who died in 1972 in a plane crash after only 2+ years in office.  His legacy was cut short, but his wife, Cardiss Hortense Collins, ran for his seat in congress and won. She ended up serving 24 years in the House of Representatives. A Random accident led to an amazing career for the first African American woman from the midwest to ever serve in Congress.  Read her story, it’s also worth it.

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5. George the Bridge  

Honestly this one caught my eye first.  A modern day woman in an image search for George? That definitely didn’t make sense.  But it does.  George Washington had a bridge named after him, the bridge going between New Jersey and New York.  This woman jumped off it to her death this month.  Her name is Ashley Riggitano and she committed suicide on her 22nd birthday (Feb 6th, 2014).  She was a burgeoning jewelry designer and  fashionista in NYC.  She left a suicide note in her Louis Vuitton bag she left on the bridge. In it she told of being bullied and harassed by ‘friends’, 5 of whom she named and said she did not want to be allowed at her funeral.  These women included her supposed best friend and business partner in her jewelry business.  One told her to “Go kill yourself with Xanax” shortly before she jumped off the bridge.  Her family said she had suffered from depression and anti-depressants were found in her bag along with the note.  It was also said she had tried to commit suicide before. It’s a very sad story.

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So, I was thinking maybe our random act of kindness today can be the giving of attention. I loved finding out who these people were, what they added to the world. They may all have passed away, but they deserve to be paid attention to, to be remembered in kindness, random or otherwise.

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© 2014 Marty Coleman | Napkin Dad Publishing

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Valentine’s Day – Ecstasies and Details

 

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my Napkin Kin! 

Valentine's  Day 2014

Remember, whether you have a lover, BF, GF, BFF, husband, wife, all of the above or not, there is always someone in front of you who needs love.

Anatomy of a Drawing – Two Woman at a Tulsa Starbucks While Snow Falls

 

I had to drop off one of our cars to be serviced this week. I waited at a Tulsa Starbucks for a few hours hoping the car would be done without me having to drive home and back.

Here is the finished version of the line drawing I did in my sketchbook while there.

 

Two Women at a Tulsa Starbucks

 

I thought it might be fun for you to see how one of my drawings looks before it is finished so I scanned it before I shaded it. Here’s the flat, color-only version.

 

Two women talking at a tulsa starbucks while it snows - color only 2014

 

The original drawing was done in pen. Here it is before any color was added. 

 

tulsastarbucks_lineonly_2014_sm

 

What do you think? Is the final drawing the best or do you like one of the other two better? 

And another question, what does it look like they were talking about?  What are their stories?

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

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Where Do You Find Your Sublime Happiness?

 

I know many of the Napkin Kin would say the moment below is the moment, right?

Sublime Happiness

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The Sublime Moment

I don’t regularly have this sublime moment in my life repertoire, but I did have it once.  The moment helped me understand the ecstasy of which my female friends speak.  No, I didn’t enter a drag queen contest or dress up as a woman for Halloween (not that there’s anything wrong with that).  I had to wear a heart monitor for 48 hours as part of my annual physical.  It was strapped around my chest the whole time and what an annoyance it was.  It was SO great to finally have it off.  I figured out then that if I were female I would probably be one who takes her bra off the second she gets in her car to go home from work.  I just knew I would want it off that bad. 

Anyway, just a fun drawing today to let my female Napkin Kin know I understand your agony and ecstasy (at least a little bit!)

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Drawing by Marty Coleman

Quote by Joyce Grenfell, 1910-1979, English actor and songrwriter.  She actually used the word ‘corset’ instead of ‘bra’ in the original quote.  I can imagine a corset would be even harder to keep on all day.

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Happiness is the sublime moment when you get out of your bra at night

Rule Keeping / Rule Breaking – What Enslaves Us?

 

What Are You Slave To?

 

What Enslaves Us

I found this quote yesterday and decided to use it on my morning’s napkin. I have my own things I am, or have been, slave to in my life, including a few on the list below. But I was interested in what others had to say about this topic so I posted the following question on Facebook:

Question: I am drawing a napkin today about what we are slaves to. What are you now, or have you been, slave to? What about others you know? Family traits, cultural?

Here is a list of the answers people talked about.  

  • Alcohol
  • Insecurities
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Clichés
  • Cell Phone
  • Nothing
  • Love 
  • Changing environment
  • Government
  • Voices in my head
  • Petroleum
  • Facebook
  • The scale
  • Rules
  • Urgency
  • Perfectionism
  • Controlling things
  • Consumerism
  • Righteousness
  • Fear
  • Death
  • My boss
  • Need to please
  • Society standards
  • Work
  • Beauty
  • Guilt
  • Masturbation
  • Expectations
  • Responsibilities

And finally,

  • Chocolate

Do you have others to add?  It would make me happy if you would do so in the comments.

Rule Breaker/Rule Keeper

Out of that list I chose to illustrate the idea of ‘rules’. It seemed to me that most, if not all, the items on that list came back to our dealing with rules.  Rules we either think we should or should not obey.  Rules cover a lot.

I have family members and good friends who see themselves as rule keepers.  They feel they are able to control their lives adequately by following the rules of society, government, work, and the rules in their own head.  In most cases it seems to work for them. But I also know they get incredibly stressed out at times trying to follow all these rules. It’s draining because many of them are arbitrary, don’t contribute to actual goodness, and just make no sense. And yet they still obey those rules.  

I also have family members and good friends who see themselves as rule breakers (myself included).  They feel it gives them a freedom and a creativity to face the world with enthusiasm and fun.  In most cases it works for them. But they also can get in trouble, or cause trouble, in situations where the trouble doesn’t help anyone. It’s not the positive trouble-making I mentioned a few days ago regarding entrepreneurs, it’s the trouble that comes from being oblivious to the benefits rules give to them and others. They break them without purpose, just to do it, or just ‘for fun’ without realizing how it may hurt themselves and others.  And yet they still break the rules.

Some are in both camps. They are rule keepers to the world around them, but rule breakers secretly. We all are a bit like that I think, but some are so torn between the two that their public face and their private face have nothing in common.  I believe that is a very dangerous place to be.

Why Polish?

Knowing what we are enslaved by is all well and good, but if we are interested in overcoming our slavery then the next, equally important question, is:

How and why do we ‘polish the chain’ that enslaves us?  What causes us to do that?  

What’s your answer?

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Drawing and questions by Marty Coleman, Answers by the Napkin Kin

Quote by Marcel Mariën, 1920-1993, Belgian Surrealist

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