From Real To Un – I Draw In Church

Drawing in church (or anywhere) is not restricted to drawing something or someone I am looking at.  Here are 5 examples of the range, from starting with a real person but adding a made-up background to doing something abstract that has no connection to a world outside itself.


The Violinist’s Hand

The drawing is of a real person…sorta. She is the violinist in church that I draw frequently. But I am not being hired to draw her portrait so I am not particularly concerned about it looking exactly like her. I have certain parts that I hope I get right and I work at that, but just like an author will tell you, sometimes the character takes on a life of their own. In the artist’s case, the lines made and the colors chosen have reasons, some known some unknown, that go beyond a likeness to the individual and into an idea, feeling or mood.

The background obviously isn’t from church. I created it to build on the idea of her looking off in the distance and hoping for help. After I drew the background I came up with what she might be thinking. I penned that in and was going to leave the last word off but then thought it would be interesting to finish the quote with a visual instead of a word.


The Stained Glass Singer

Here is another example of starting with a person, in this case a choir member. This time it looks like I went even further away from a standard portrait but it didn’t start that way. 

That happened later, when I was in my studio studying the drawing. That is when I started to see the facets in her face and thought about defining them.  I have done that many times before over the decades and it’s always a fun exercise to work on.

But what made it special this time was realizing that building those up could turn her into a stained glass window. It seems like a perfect thing to do. 


Sad Girl

The only thing remotely connected to a real person here is a general shape of the face, but even that is exaggerated. It was just a shape I saw and remembered as I passed someone in the hall of the church. 

The rest of the drawing I wasn’t looking at anybody or thinking about anyone in particular. The initial line drawing of the shape gave me a melancholy feeling so I drew the rest of the portrait to match that.

I chose the blue and yellow stripes of the hair first. The shirt was a solid at that point but I felt one solid block of color would be too heavy at the bottom. I liked the idea of something bridging the two sides of her so I added stripes to the shirt. It also allowed me to create a sense of volume to her body.

Sometimes a situation arises that causes you to make a decision you otherwise would not make. I started filling in the pink background on the left and slowly realized the marker was running out of ink. In most cases I would just refill but I didn’t have any refill ink. So, I had to consider what could I do on the opposite side if I wasn’t going to use the same color. I liked the idea of using a cool color to break up the symmetry of the image and to cast a different mood to the two different sides so I went with a pale green.

At the very end I did not like the big blank space between her eyes and her mouth so I decided to add her blushing. It seemed just the right finishing touch to the image and her melancholy.


The Aliens

Sometimes the distance between what you start with and what you end with is light years away. I ended with a couple of goofy aliens landing on earth. But what I started with was a breast.

I had this idea, yes while in church, of a nude woman floating in the air. So, I drew a breast to start. I realize two things at this point. One, I made the breast too big to make my idea of a whole person floating feasible and two, church might not be the best place to draw this image even if it did fit.

So, what to do? I contemplated what I had and saw a possible space ship. One shaped like a flying breast it’s true but I figured I could make that not so apparent. 

And of course a space ship has to have aliens so I decided to make them look like bumbling boobs, just for fun.


Spiral #7

Sometimes I am completely in my head at church, not looking at anything.  This is the case with this drawing of spirals, one of a series I have been doing lately.

While it is completely abstract (meaning no reference to anything beyond itself) that does not mean I am not considering the possible ideas that might come from the drawing.

In this case I was very deliberate about having the four quadrants be mirror images of the diagonal quadrant and to have the colors be the same. At this point my thoughts are about how the colors are reflecting groups of people and how they interact – tribes, colonies, and yes churches.

That doesn’t mean I expect someone looking at this drawing to see that, or to see anything at all. It’s just where my mind meanders as I am creating these sorts of images.

The great thing about art, and in particular abstract art, is that everyone is right in their opinion. There is no absolute truth in art.  What you want it to mean, it means.


Drawing and commentary © 2019 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com


Scene with Numbers


In 2017 I drew this in the cafe of the church I attend. I finished the drawing today, just about 2 years later.

When I made all the thought bubbles in the drawing I as thinking of what they could all be thinking that would make them unique and similar at the same time and the idea of numbers came to mind. We frequently think in numbers, even if we don’t realize it so I started writing down various numbers that we get attached to and sometimes obsess about; money, age, time, distance, size, temperature are just a few.

I showed this on my live stream as I was drawing it and one person commented, ‘Eternity isn’t a number.’ And he is right. But it is a concept of time and time is all about numbers so it still fits. Plus I did the drawing at a church, where the idea of eternity is talked about probably more than any other place.


Drawing and commentary © 2019 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Love is a Condition

I drew this 9 years ago. I was thinking about my wife Linda when I drew it and wrote the commentary. 
I am still thinking about her and her happiness this Valentine’s Week.


Yes, compatibility matters and mutual interests matter and attraction matters.

But nothing matters like wanting your partner’s happiness.

Nothing brings joy like realizing that what brings your partner happiness is something within your grasp to give. 

That’s a blissful moment of love. 


Drawing and commentary © 2019 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com 

“Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to our own.” – Robert Heinlein, 1907-1988, American author


Cafe Drawings

Here are my most recent cafe drawings. I have been drawing in cafes for as long as I can remember. 


‘The Writer’
Tulsa, OK, Prismacolor pencil & pen on paper, 2003-2019

Back when I was single (pre-2006) I used to go to Barnes & Noble regularly to read and draw. I don’t remember anything about this woman now except that she was intensely writing, oblivious to her surroundings. 16 years later I unexpectedly received a large collection of colored pencils so I went back to this drawing I had always loved and finished it.


‘Cafe View’
Tulsa, OK, Marker on Paper, 2017-2018

Once a month Linda takes care of babies in the nursery of our church instead of attending the service. Often I will sit in the cafe on those days instead of in the service and draw. These two men were trying to keep cool by coming indoors on a very hot July morning. I don’t often have the opportunity to do a true city view with large buildings close up so after I had drawn the men I focused on that.


‘The Song Made Them Cry’ 
San Francisco, CA, Marker on Paper, 2018 – 2019

I was in the Bay Area to run the Oakland Marathon and was attending my daughter Chelsea’s cafe concert in the Mission District of San Francisco the evening before the race. I saw these two women in rapt attention to a particular song and took advantage of the moment to draw them. They both were actually crying.


‘The Grey Day’
Tulsa, OK., Marker on Paper, 2019

I was at a Starbucks waiting for my car to be repaired and I noticed a very striking woman dressed in shades of grey. She was in high contrast, with dark eyes, lips, hair and nails set off against the palest of pale skin and paper. I did the line drawing quickly and used my color imagination later to create the feeling I had looking at her.


All drawings © 2019 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

What Enslaves Us

I drew this napkin 5 years ago today.  

What Are You Slave To?


Here is a partial list of the things that might enslave you or me (if you think of others, feel free to let me know in the comments).

    • Alcohol / Drugs
    • Insecurity
    • Depression / Anxiety
    • Phone / Social Media
    • Change
    • The scale
    • Rules / Society standards
    • Perfection
    • Control
    • Shopping
    • Work
    • Guilt
    • Sex / Porn
    • Expectations
    • Responsibilities
    • Sugar

I have personally have dealt with or still deal with at least 5 on this list and if I include my family and close friends then I have dealt indirectly with almost every single one to some degree. I expect if you are old enough you have too.

The Hard Part

Here is the hard part. Knowing we are enslaved isn’t enough. If we are more interested in overcoming than polishing then we must ask and seek the answer to this question:

Why do we polish our chains?

Here’s why we need to ask this question. Saying you hate something about yourself or your situation is only looking at half the issue. The other question we have to ask is:

What do we gain from it?

Because knowing what we gain from it is key to figuring out how to let it go and pick up something else that isn’t as destructive.

What are your answers?


Drawing and Commentary @ 2019 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Quote by Marcel Mariën, 1920-1993, Belgian Surrealist