Lions and Sheep

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Note that it does not say “Lions do not take into consideration the opinions of sheep.”  It says they won’t fret unnecessarily over them. They won’t take the out of context and will not blow them up to be more important than they are.

If you listen to the blithering buffoons on talk radio, you know their job is to get people riled up and wanting to come back for more. They want ratings so they do their best to push people into extreme positions en masse. They want followers, in other words. They want sheep.

A lion (metaphoric, not actual) doesn’t need to bend to every wind of opinion or every idea espoused by someone, especially someone who is obviously under the uneducated influence of one extremity or another.  A lion sets his or her own course based on intellect, education, exposure, open-mindedness and experience, all the while listening and considering other’s opinions, just not overreacting to them.

Are you a Lion?


 

Drawing and commentary © 2016 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Quote is anonymous


 

Resolutions and the Road

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Resolutions are best made regarding behaviors, not outcomes. In other words, don’t say “I will lose 25 lbs, that is an outcome. Instead say, “I will exercise 3 days a week”, or “I will reduce my meal portions by 1/3.”  those are behaviors.


 

Drawing © 2015 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Quote by Mark Twain


 

Four Students Thinking of Christmas – A Short Short Story

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Chapter One

 

The four women were studying for a nursing exam at Starbucks but their minds were all on Christmas.

The End


Drawing and story © 2015 Marty Coleman


 

 

The Glorious Mess – Christmas Truth #3

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So don’t clean it up too soon!

Missed It

I’ve missed the crazy messy Christmas mornings that happen when kids are young.  Luckily this year we have our 2 grandkids coming for the first time so we will have a very messy Christmas. And I can’t wait!

Here’s wishing you a very Messy Merry Marty Christmas!


Drawing © 2015 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Quote by Andy Rooney, 1919 – 2011, American Radio and Television writer


 

The Tinsel Tangle – Christmas Truths #2

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More Stress

There really is barely any other time of the year that can engender such high levels of stress among parents and families as Christmas.  Why is that?  It’s the same reason stress rears its ugly head at any other time, expectations of perfection.  The tree needs to be perfect, the food, the presents, the living arrangements, the activities, the conversation, the travel plans, and more.  The perceived need for perfection is the recipe for stress.

Less Stress

Then why do certain families not have the same level of stress as others at Christmas time? It certainly isn’t that they decorate less or plan less or do less. It’s because they have all those activities in their proper place, as secondary to love. Loving their family and friends is what drives them, not presenting perfection to them.  

What is most important

That doesn’t mean you aren’t showing love by making a beautiful Christmas experience for them. Working hard to make it all be fantastic is great. What isn’t great is thinking that if everything isn’t perfect you have failed.  Because failure comes from your family walking away from Christmas feeling stressed themselves.  Success comes from them feeling loved.

Focus on that and you won’t let Christmas get your tinsel in a tangle.


 

Drawing and commentary © 2015 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

Quote was contributed by @Lornaknits on Periscope for our monthly drawing giveaway. The Best Christmas Quote was this month and this one got the most votes.  Congrats Lorna!