Overdoing It or Don’t be a Walter

Have you ever seen ‘The Big Lebowski’? It’s a great movie. I mention it because in it a friend, Walter (played by John Goodman), is trying to help Lebowski (also known as ‘the dude’, played by Jeff Bridges) get reimbursed for a ruined carpet (Someone peed on it). Lebowski is a very mellow dude and is trying to go about it in his own slacker way. But Walter is a hot head and is always overreacting to events. He escalates situations into some pretty extreme violence when it is utterly unnecessary. He uses a hatchet when a flyswatter was the right tool.

Don’t be a Walter.  But do see the movie.


Drawing © 2018 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

 

 

The Observer of My Thoughts

Jewel the Observer

I recently saw a live video stream of the musician Jewel performing. She was talking about when she was down and out, homeless and broke, not sure where she was going to go and what she was going to do. She said she realized at one point that she wasn’t just thinking something, she was observing herself thinking it.  And that made a huge difference in her life Because she realized, if you are the observer of your thoughts then you can change those thoughts. You can evaluate if those thoughts are good for you and those around you. You can take steps to change those thoughts to be more positive, more helpful, more loving. You are not an unconscious being just existing, you are able to change who you are because you are able to see yourself and take action. So do it already.

Drawing and commentary © 2018 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

The Good Friend – An Illustrated Short Story

The Good Friend

The woman was so anxious to finally tell the other woman about what was going on in her life because the other woman was a good friend. They were able to go have coffee one fall morning and have time to talk.  The woman spilled her guts to the other woman, telling her all about her husband’s terrible behavior, including verbal abuse and cheating on her with some other woman.  The other woman listened intently to everything she said and nodded in what the woman thought was signs of sympathy.  But the woman was wrong about the other woman being sympathetic because she was the other woman.

The End


Drawing and short story © 2018 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com


 

Tired Jack O. Lantern, Esq.

Tired Jack

Jack was always tired. He never slept, burning the candle at both ends. That was a problem because it caused wax to drip everywhere and that made the partners in the law firm where he worked very angry. He got fired and spent his October either watching the baseball playoffs or sitting on the stoop outside his walkup wondering what to do. He was depressed and got lit often. It was a very scary time for him.

But eventually he died, became compost, was spread across a garden and helped grow a new batch of happy pumpkins the next year.

The End


Drawing and story © 2018 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com