by Marty Coleman | Feb 2, 2012 | Niels Bohr, Quotes on Quotes - 2012 |
The truth is it’s day #4 of ‘Quotes on Quotes’ week at the NDD!
Physicists understand very well that what seems to be is not always what is. The rest of us so often assume appearances and conventional knowledge are safe to follow. If we follow those we will pretty much have the truth, right? Well physics tells us that is not always the case in the scientific realm.
In our daily life that we can see and feel, touch and hear, the same is true. I have had two long relationships, my first marriage lasted 20 years, and I am now in year 8 of a relationship with my second wife. In both cases I have come to learn that their reality is often very different than mine. At times in both relationships we have all wanted to argue and believe that our reality is THE reality. The other person is not understanding, not obeying, not living by what are an obvious set of rules, methods, behaviors, thought processes that OF COURSE we all should go by. If they are broken then the other person’s motivations must be suspect.
I know I have been guilty of that, more when I was younger, but it still it comes up. I also know that both my wives have been guilty of it as well. And we have had to talk about it, sometimes painfully. Obviously my first marriage didn’t survive, but we actually were still able to understand each other better and not be so judgmental of each other towards the end of our marriage. My current marriage to Linda has had some of the same things, but because we are both older and wiser, we seem to be able to not be quite so rigid in our understandings and judgments.
It takes work but if you start from the assumption that you don’t hold the only profound truth about relationships and behaviors, then at least you have a way in to the conversations about how someone sees things differently than you. Not wrong, just different.
Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman, who is the opposite of who you might expect.
Quote by Niels Bohr, 1885-1962, Danish physicist. He also designed his own coat of arms for when he was awarded the ‘Order of the Elephant’ by the Danish government. It included a yin and yang symbol and the motto in latin “contraria sunt complementa” (opposites are complementary).
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by Marty Coleman | Feb 1, 2012 | Anonymous, Quotes on Quotes - 2012 |
And I quote, “It’s day #3 of Quotes on Quotes week at the NDD.”
The biggest, baddest, most humongous tome in the world may have drama, it may get a lot of attention, it may get it’s own mini-series, but that doesn’t mean it has substance that can actually help or nurture anyone.
Sometimes the small and anonymous does that better. So, don’t be under the delusion you need to be famous or powerful and an attention getting drama queen to contribute well to your world. Maybe all you need to do is be a flower.
Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman, who some day would like to see a real live person painted just like the person in the drawing.
Quote by Anonymous, who thinks the same thing.
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 31, 2012 | Franklin P. Jones, Quotes on Quotes - 2012 |
Don’t quote me, but it appears to be day #2 of Quotes on Quotes week at the NDD
This is a quote about cliches. Cliches are usually embodied in quotes. Thus, this is a quote about quotes.
This quote is about language. Language explains things. Thus, this quote explains things.
This drawing is by Marty Coleman. Marty is left handed. Thus, this drawing should be looked at left to right.
This quote is by Franklin P. Jones. Franklin was a reporter and lived from 1908-1980. Thus, this quote is reporting something strange.
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 30, 2012 | Benjamin Franklin, David H. Comins, Quote Authors, Quotes on Quotes - 2012 |
It’s day 1 of Quotes on Quotes week. Do you have any great quotes about quotes? Let me know about them!
Have you ever known something was completely, absolutely true but no one would believe you because you are just a schmuck friend or family member? Then a month or two goes by and that same person who didn’t believe you comes back and says, “Hey, did you know that XXX is true? I read it in the Times this weekend. Isn’t that amazing?” You, of course, want to kick them in the head and say, “I ALREADY TOLD YOU THAT AND YOU DIDN”T BELIEVE ME, YOU KNUCKLEHEAD!”
That is where being an authority comes in handy. I think the best way to be an authority is to give credit for everything you know to Ben or George or maybe Einstein or Edison, even if it’s your idea. A little less ego but more recognition isn’t all that bad a way to go.
Drawing by Pable Picasso
Commentary by Ralph Waldo Emerson
Quote by Aristotle
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 29, 2012 | Art, Artists I Love, Edward Hopper |
Weekend 3 of my remembrance and sharing of the artists who have influenced me over the decades. This week, Edward Hopper.
Edward Hopper – Woman in the Sun
Edward Hopper got my attention while I was still in High School. What grabbed me was first and foremost his incredible compositional skills. If you have ever heard me talk on my own work you know that in spite of me always having some emotional or psychological content in my work, while I am actually doing it I am overwhelmingly concerned with the visual composition of the piece. Without composition, content is diminished in my eyes.
Edward Hopper – Woman in the Sun – sketchbook record
I found this while looking for images for this post. I love the idea that he made a drawn and written record of his paintings, including who he sold the piece to. I wish I could get $15,000 for one of mine! Any takers?
Edward Hopper – Western Motel
Check out my napkins and often times you will see people inside with simple windows showing a distant landscape. Hopper frequently did the same thing and I always loved the emotional and psychological power it had in his images. Speaking of composition, note how every single item and element in this painting has its compositional as well as its story telling purpose.
Edward Hopper – New York Office
Another visual idea Hopper plays with often is the street or path disappearing into and behind the main subject of the piece. The juxtaposition of the brightly lit woman in the office, elegant and colorful, with the dark foreboding side street going who knows where is a powerful symbolic idea. Its the hint of a secret, the hint of all not being exactly as it seems, that there is something darker, scarier, going on, that I find so powerful. And once again, this idea would never have the power it does if Hopper didn’t know how to compose the image to perfection.
Edward Hopper – Chop Suey
I will admit, my main fascination with this image, besides the incredible composition, is the woman in green. Whenever I have looked at this painting over the years I am taken to that moment in time, wondering who she is and what she is all about. By the way, note the woman with the red hat and brightly lit profile on the far left. Why do you think he included her?
Edward Hopper – Night Shadows – Etching
Of course, with his focus on the power of composition you know he would find a way to use black and white. His etchings are as amazing as his paintings.
Edward Hopper – Room by the Sea
And finally, one usually does not see Hopper categorized as a metaphysical or spiritual artist. But I think of him that way, with his sparse lonely individuals lost in thought and his isolated buildings and homes placed in unlikely environments. This one is probably my favorite when it comes to that idea. It is not about a room by the sea, it’s about you taking a step into the unknown. I love this piece because, for me, it’s about courage – the single most important characteristic one needs to lead a creative life.
To see more of the ‘Artists I Love’ series use the drop down menu at the top of the page.
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 27, 2012 | Dogs vs Cats - 2012, Samuel Butler |
It’s the final day of Dog and Cat week. Enjoy it, it’s what you were meant to do!
That doesn’t mean you feel joy all the time. It simply means you pursue joy and happiness. Don’t be fooled into thinking it’s selfishness. Do it right and you will end up helping your family, friends, co-workers, and complete strangers be happier and have more joy as well.
Drawing by Marty Coleman, who once went to a real bullfight in France.
Quote by Samuel Butler. It might be THIS Samuel Butler or maybe it’s THIS Samuel Butler. If you figure it out, let me know, ok?
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 26, 2012 | Dogs vs Cats - 2012 |
If I have not erred, it’s day 4 of Dog and Cat Week at the NDD!
Cats, Dogs, and Humans by NapkinDad
So true, so true. Why is it that humans are the only animal that errs, or even knows it?
Drawing by Marty Coleman, a lover of forgiveness and purring.
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 25, 2012 | Dogs vs Cats - 2012, Mary Bly |
Dog gone it if it ain’t day #3 of Dog and Cat week at the NDD!
I open the door for the dogs and Wiggle Dog comes in at a full gallop, even if I just let her out. Stubby Dog comes pretty close behind, unless it’s particularly nice out, in which case she put on her cat persona and looks at me with that ‘aren’t you going to come out and play?’ look. Normal Cat meanwhile wants to come in. I know she wants to come in because she is whining at the window telling me so. I know she will trail behind the dogs, but what I haven’t quite gotten used to is the fact that I need to put my winter coat on because she will take SO LONG to get to the door that I get a little bit of frostbite otherwise.
She also happens to be the only one of our four legged roommates who has been almost arrested for breaking and entering. She scared the bejesus out of a neighbor once by going in through their doggy door and rubbing up against her leg while she stood at the sink washing dishes. To say she freaked was an understatement. I got her off serving time by my charm and a well-timed bribe to the cat police. She still owes me.
© 2025 by Marty Coleman, who once painted his picket fence to match his dalmatian, Oreo.
Oreo and her fence
Quote by Mary Bly, 1962 – not dead yet, American author under the pen name Eloisa James
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 24, 2012 | Anonymous, Dogs vs Cats - 2012 |
Dog and cat week continues at the NDD.
And humans try to be both, that’s why we like both dogs and cats, right? Which one do you like more, dogs or cats?
Drawing and questions by Marty Coleman, who was a golden retriever in a past life.
Quote by someone who won’t admit it.
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by Marty Coleman | Jan 23, 2012 | Dogs vs Cats - 2012, Quote Authors |
It’s ‘Dogs and Cats’ Week at the NDD!
When I would come home to visit my parents from college or from whatever far off place I happened to be living my mother would go crazy wild with joy to see me. She would cry, she would hug, she would be loud and happy. That’s how dogs are.
I once went back to visit my home town of San Diego. While I was there I went to visit a family friend I had not seen in probably 20 years. His greeting to me was a mild handshake and a ‘hey, how are ya?’ as if he had seen me the day before. That’s how cats are.
Drawing and reminiscence by Marty Coleman, a dog for sure.
Quote by Dereke Bruce, maybe a chef, maybe a former vet, I am not sure.
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